Be True To Yourself

According to society and the people I know, friends and family included, the intention of life is to meet someone, fall in love, live together, get married, buy a house and have children.
What if what you want is something completely different?
What if you want a relationship that’s not atypical, not mainstream?

What if you want to meet someone and it would be nice to fall in love and maybe live together? And that’s it.
What if you prefer to be in a loving, monogamous relationship and you also want to keep separate homes?
What if you desire a long-term monogamous relationship and you have no intention of getting married, not now and possibly not ever?
What if you enjoy your freedom and independence and you never intend to buy a home?
What if you prefer the freedom of moving around the world and believe owning a house means it ends up owning you?
What if you know, without a shadow of a doubt, that you have no interest in having a child or having another one yet, you still desire a loving, connected LTR?
Does that make dating more challenging?

If you think it does, if you think you can’t get what you want, you’re right.
Whatever you think and whatever you believe is true.

If you believe that you cannot have what you want because it’s not the same as what everyone else wants, you’re right. There is very little to do that can change what you believe.

When you believe something different, when you believe that you can get exactly the type of relationship you want, then that is now the true truth.
And, it’s a lot easier to get exactly what you want. But first, you have to believe that it’s possible.

Napoleon Hill said, “Whatever the mind can conceive and you believe, it can be achieved”.
I believe that 100%. I’ve seen it happen time and time again.

It happened with Diane. She knew she wanted to get married. She had an urge to write down a date on her calendar that she wanted to get engaged by this particular date. She wasn't seeing anyone, she wasn't even dating. But, she had the urge to write it down and she continued to enjoy her life. She had fun living her life, working, seeing her friends and she forgot all about it. One year later she was not only engaged, she was married, too. And, she happened to be over 50.

I have 3 questions for you.
Is there a relationship you desire?
Do you believe it’s possible?
What would it be like to be in that relationship?

I’d love to hear your answers so drop me a line at [email protected].
If you're ready to paint yourself a picture, if you're ready to try something different to get what you want, let’s talk.

Believe and date with intention,
Elizabeth