Spider-Man and Dating

Tell me the truth…

did you ever meet someone, begin dating and then you stopped going out with him because he didn’t make you happy?

Did you expect him to make you happy?

As Spider-Man said, “With Great Power, Comes Great Responsibility”. 

This is never more true then when it comes to dating.

The more you take on the first, power, the more important it is that you take and accept the latter, responsibility. 

When you accept power in your life and in the life of your relationships, you have to accept responsibility for yourself. What this means is that you have to take responsibility for your own happiness. You also have to take responsibility for your unhappiness. You have to be responsible for both the giving of love and the receiving of love.

When you do that, when you accept that it’s up to you to make yourself happy and it’s up to you to both give and receive love, it makes it that much easier to attract, date and be in a happy, loving relationship.

That’s what happened to Penny. She knew what she wanted and after working with me and understanding how to get what she wanted she found her husband 2 months later.

Are you the type of woman who is going to sit around and wait for a man to come to you? 

Are you the type of woman who thinks that a man has to make you happy?

Are you the type of woman who thinks that the right man will just know how to choose the right place to meet for that date and based on him choosing the right place that you’ve always wanted to go to, he’s the one for you?

If you think this, you’re delusional. 

I know that sounds harsh, it’s meant to be in order to get your attention. I want you to understand you have a lot more power than you think when it comes to dating. You have tremendous power to get what you want.

A person that you date and have a relationship with can make you happier but they can’t make you happy. That is up to you. 

Own your power. 

Direct your power.

Wield your power.

When you know how to make yourself happy, when you know how to change your mood and get back to being happy, when you can accept that you have the power to make yourself happy should you choose, the right man will come into your life.

It takes two people to attract, date, create and sustain a relationship.

It is up to you to take responsibility for you and your own happiness in your life. 

Take responsibility in how you choose to act and react and how you choose to open up and move forward to get what you want.

If there are things that are holding you back, I want you to know that you can move through the resistance. There are actionable steps you can take that can bring all of this home and bring the right man to you so you can be in the relationship you’ve always wanted.

If you’re willing to try something new, if you’re ready to begin dating and if you’re able to make a decision and move forward, let’s get on a call.

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Dare to date with responsibility,

Elizabeth

P.S. Did you know you can find additional dating tips on my YouTube channel? Check out  Dare To Date Differently with Elizabeth Tritsch and like, subscribe and leave a comment.

Comment below with your favorite Spider-Man quote and any dating challenges you’re looking to overcome.